Sometimes apologizing is like trying to cough up a fur ball. I don't know what that means exactly because I don't own a cat. But I imagine it must be like having something tasteless, dry, and suffocating wedged in your throat. Those who struggle with forming the words "I'm sorry" feel it would be better to choke them down than cough them up. Why? Oftentimes, it's because they don't want to be wrong. Apologizing is an admission of "blowing it" on some level. Regardless of the size of the infraction, someone or something has gotten hurt, or at the very least, inconvenienced in some way. An apology says, "I am wrong". Some people don't accept that they make certain mistakes so rather than own them, they blame others or excuse their behavior. You've heard it: "That wasn't my fault. If he hadn't done this, I wouldn't have done that." Another reason why apologizing seems ...
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